Are you the type of person that the type of person that you are looking for, is looking for?
Confusing? haha.
Be who the person that you are looking for in a relationship, you shouldn't expect your spouse to do something that you don't do yourself.
How can You change you, not the other person?
Your present will eventually be your past, but it will show up in your future.
Marriage doesn't solve problems, it reveals problems.
"The Grass is always greener on the other side..." Why Don't you water your own grass!!!! Change you!
Dating Myths
-If I meet the right person, I'll live happily ever after.
-If I meet the right person they will complete me.
God Completes you!
-If I meet the right person, the chemistry will be off the charts!
Marriage isn't about sex as much as it's about communication!
Sex Is not a need, It's a desire!
The Bible gives us very little help when it comes to finding the right person, but it provides lots of help when it comes to becoming the right person.
-1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
3 Steps to "Happy Ever After" (Don't mix up the order!)
1. Discover your maker.
2. Embrace your mission.
(After you've taken the first two steps, it's a lot easier to stumble on the 3rd)
3. Meet your mate.
1 Corinthians 13:11 "When I was a child, i talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned llike a child. When I became a man I put the ways of Childhood behind me.
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